Northwest Indiana famously gets a lot of snow. Growing up there, though, no one really freaked out about it because we had machines to get rid of it and the attitude that it was hardly a problem worth hyperventilating over.
Most problems are like that. When we prepare for them and get used to them, they're not problems anymore. They're merely the way it is.
After my "True Admission" earlier this week, our plan to rewind your day is one way of finding the true source of our binge eating or emotional eating.
Once we find that source, look to see if it creeps into life over and over like snow does in Indiana (or New Hampshire!). Once you can see its varying forms, you don't have to hyperventilate over it anymore, and you don’t have to eat your way through it.
Remember, no one is perfect at this. Even after you realize your tendencies, we still practice over and over at getting better at overcoming it or just handling it. Take the small steps today to just find the challenge. The next step is not to overcome it all in one day, but to take small steps to prepare for it next time.
To Your Best Health,
True admission: I am an emotional eater! When I am stressed and alone (that being key) I can binge eat with the best of them.
How do I know I am binge eating and not eating for health?
It’s not purposeful eating. It’s not a meal time (usually). I often eat quickly. I'm alone. And I sneak the food. I eat TOO much. And my choices are all in the sweets category (I don't binge on carrots. LOL).
How can you learn to fight against binge eating?
I am learning to back up time a bit. It’s hard at times to stop the mindless binge or emotional eating because you don't catch yourself until after the fact. But I can replay the day in mind. I back up the day until I find the one thing that stressed me beyond what I felt I could handle.
All kinds of things cause stress for me. It could be as easy as not sleeping well and then having it snow, heavy snow and rain and I get a bit aggravated at how exhausted it makes me feel. Sometimes it could be a bit harder to do the detective work to find the straw that broke my camel's back, so to speak.
But once I find the triggers or points of interest, I can start to look for them on different days. I know my own 'red flags' so I can spot them before they become issues. At least that is the goal.
My emotional closet eating has become less and less (not totally obsolete) because I am looking for those signals from my body. They are like caution signs on the side of the road.
Next time you have one of those moments or days, back up time. Rewind the film so you can replay the scene. Look for your triggers, that one more thing, the caution sign, and look to avoid the end result.
To Your Best Health,
Another super simple, yet delicious side dish to go with your choice of protein! Seriously, this can be added to any meal and you might just have have all the ingredients on hand to try it tonight.
by Coach Nancy
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Wash, peel, and cut carrots into 1 inch sections. Lay flat on a baking pan or dish lined with parchment paper. Pour the ghee over the carrots. Add remaining ingredients and mix until carrots are fully coated. Bake for 1 hour. Enjoy!
Healthy eating is all about reasonable meals that leave you comfortable and satisfied until 30-60 minutes before you eat again. Its working on the “Goldilocks Effect” (thank you Josh Hillis for teaching me about Goldilocks again). The “Goldilocks Effect” is eating until you are comfortable, until you are ‘just right’. You feel comfortable with yourself physically but your emotions as you walk away from a meal are ‘comfortable’ as well. You eat enough so you are not deprived or feeling deprived. ‘Just right’ is your frame of mind as well. It is a skill that has to be worked on because our lives are always changing.
Be like Goldilocks.
Eat just enough. Goldilocks ate just enough to satisfy after a day of walking in the woods. She ate just enough to satisfy so she could fall fast asleep and not wake up when bears came home. Just enough so when she had to run, she could and did.
Bring awareness to your meals.
I believe all of us have felt that overstuffed feeling after a meal. You know when you want to rush to put on that pair of sweats so you can breathe again.
Eat slowly. Enjoy each bite. Take small bites and chew to enjoy the food and the experience (it will take practice).
Identify the feelings and sensations that happen as you eat. These will help you to recognize 'being satisfied'. Eating just enough.
To Your Best Health,
Surprisingly easy, this sausage super is one of our family favorites. The variations are endless but start with veggies and a sausage combination you know, then break out from there. The possibilities are endless.
Super Simple Sausage Supper
by Coach Nancy
Preheat your oven to 350 degrees. Cut the butternut squash into wedges. Place the squash, onion, red pepper flakes ad sausage in a roasting pan. Drizzle with olive oil. Roast for an hour, stirring it halfway through. Supper is ready when everything is golden brown and tender. Remove from oven and sprinkle parsley over the top.
What does hunger feel like anyways?
Everyone describes hunger a bit differently. How do you describe that feeling?
I don't like to be hungry. Hungry means that I must not have any food in the house, the cupboards are bare, and there is no hope of eating a meal today. Hungry to me is the same as living in a 3rd world country and I’m on my way to starving (but I don’t, and I certainly am not starving).
Hunger gives me a bit of a panic attack. When I actually realize that I am still in my comfortable state of New Hampshire and life looks just like it did the day before, I know hunger is not starving but the empty feeling, maybe a bit hollow down inside of me.
To think about why I don’t like being hungry (thinking that starvation was just around the corner) was a big eye opener for me. Hunger in reality is a natural signal your body uses to let you know it needs some more fuel soon. That is it.
I know it is easy to let food do more than it is supposed to do. We have let food keep us company because we are bored. We let food be the shoulder to cry on when we are sad. We let food be the hug when we need comfort. We let food be the kicking block when we are stressed. Food is the fuel that keeps our bodies working.
Listening to your body talking to you is an effective way to reduce snacking. Like a turn signal in your car, when you see it you know soon there will be action taken on it. But like the car turning, it isn’t immediate. We don’t have to eat the first moment we notice we are hungry.
How can I start to work on this skill?
You can start with specific meals. For example, don’t have lunch until you actually are hungry. If you have the flexibility to hold off your work breaks until your body sends that hunger signal and you’ve noticed it for 30-60 minutes, then eat. It may mean you wait for hunger only for your last meal of the day. If the other two meals are scheduled by work or family needs, wait on the one meal you do have more control over.
Listen to how your body feels while you eat. Understanding the level at which you need to eat in order to remain comfortably full, not overstuffed, and yet ‘feel’ hunger before it is time to eat again sounds easy but is much more difficult to do. This cycle is one of the key skills for eating for your body's health.
Some of our bodies whisper, other shout, but they all talk to us. For each meal you will listen intently to hear it signal hunger. Hunger has some different levels. We're looking for that range of hunger where you are not emotionally irritated by the feeling or irrational in your judgement of the amount of food to satisfy your hunger.
My friend Georgie Fear puts it this way:
"Here are some tips on recognizing genuine body hunger and distinguishing it from false hunger (emotional or mental appetite):
Real hunger builds gradually, and may go through an initial phase of coming and going before becoming a steady sensation. False hunger or a desire to eat may arise suddenly and doesn’t last for more than about 20 to 30 minutes. This is because it is generally triggered by an emotion, time of day, smelling or seeing and appetizing food or viewing an advertisement – not a genuine bodily need. If you aren’t sure whether you’re feeling genuine body hunger or a false hunger, simply take a 20- to 30-mintue wait-and-see period."
Practice Practice Practice.......Each meal is our chance to practice. As we experiment with nutritional skills, we'll see some mishaps as well as some successful completions. That’s okay. We need to find out what works for us in our individual life's challenges.
I know many of us want to be perfect and not let others see our mishaps. But you are human and so am I. You'll get back up and keep on practicing. It is actually freeing to stop trying to be perfect. You can learn your own resilience through struggles.
Lets stop talking and start doing. There are some crazy real life situations that are happening in my life for the next 6 weeks. Birthday parties, travel, extra work load, kids that are active outside the house, and my 31st wedding anniversary. I could let them control me or I can take charge and realize this is my life and I still want to be in a measure of control. Am I perfect through all that life seems to keep throwing at me? No, but I was better than last year. Isn’t that what it is all about? I’ll keep practicing being hungry before my meals. I know this is the natural cycle my body works best at.
To your best health,
This recipe can make a great meal anytime, but its my favorite for breakfast. Once the squash is stuffed, I just sliced it and serve it alongside eggs. Another tip: I bake my squash whole at 350 degrees for about an hour. Just pierce the squash with a fork a few times before it goes into the oven. Its so much easier to slice in half this way!
Stuffed Butternut Squash
by Coach Nancy
Preheat oven to 375 degrees.
Cut the squash in half and scoop the seeds out. Lay cut side down in a pan filled with 1/4 inch of water. Cook until tender, approximately 45 minutes. Remove and allow to cool. (Or you can use my way of cooking the squash in the description above 🙂 ).
While the squash is baking, prepare the stuffing. Hint: You can always do this step ahead of time.
Dice the apple and onion into medium-sized pieces. In a skillet over medium-high heat, brown the sausage. Add the onion and cook for 5-10 minutes until soft and translucent. Add the apples and cook for another 5-10 minutes. Add all spices and cook until fragrant, about 2-3 minutes.
When the squash is cool to the touch, use a spoon to scoop out some of the flesh and mix into the sausage mixture. Use a spoon to fill the squash boats. Return the squash to the oven and bake another 15 minutes at 375ºF until everything is heated through.
These patties are such a versatile, healthy recipe. They can be eaten for breakfast, as an appetizer or snack, or as a side dish with your lunch or dinner. So many delicious options!
Sweet Potato Veggie Patties
by Coach Nancy
Mix grated veggies together and either pat with a paper towel, or wrap in a paper towel, and squeeze excess moisture out. Add eggs, almond flour, and spices, to taste. Mix thoroughly then form into patties. Heat coconut oil in a skillet over medium high heat. Place patties in skillet and cook until browned on one side, then flip and cook until second side is browned.
My kids are totally into Harry Potter. He waves his wand and BAM, magic happens. It would be so nice if real life was like that. For change to occur in real life you have to put in the work.
You see habits don't have a way of changing with a snap of your fingers, do they? We are not going to magically stop doing the things we have been doing for years because a there is a big black hat that rolls around. Habits are formed one small step at a time. We talk about breaking habits, when what we should talk about is replacing habits.
One teensy-weensy step at a time.
You and I don't have forever on this earth. We owe it to ourselves to make every day count. Monday is just as good a day to start as any other. In fact it's better, because it's today, and today is always the day to start.
So what one small step can you take today to get better?
Here's some suggestions for you.
Nobody is going to come busting down your door and making demands.
But we do want to know if we can help you start taking those small steps.
Don't wait for next Monday or next January 1st
One teensy-weensy step at a time!
To Your Best Health,
1. Don’t Starve Yourself- I’m speaking mostly to women here but really why do we try this one? We know we can’t keep it up forever. We know when we take that first bite of something yummy we won’t stop eating until it is all gone.
Let’s be sensible. A eating plan should be something we can stick with for a lifetime. Jutta Matta, PhD at Stanford University in CA, said, “A diet plan shouldn’t be done just to fit into a pair of jeans; it’s a healthy habit to manage or ward off chronic illness. You need to think of it as something you can do all your life.”
She also says, “If you believe a diet is complicated, that things are hard to calculate, chances are good you’ll quit the program before reaching your goal.”
My suggestion is to stick to getting in protein, produce, and water every meal. Be creative, call it the PPW plan. Say it with me PPW- protein, produce, water!
2. Don’t Go It Alone- Find a partner, write out your goals and share them with others. Support groups like AA are successful not only for the advice, but the emotional help from others who are going through or have conquered their addiction. Support is vital to reaching your goals quicker. It is easy to cheat on your eating plan, or skip your training session if no one knows about your doing it.
3. Don’t Buy Before You Try- Our two week free tryout to Get Fit NH Smart Group Training is for your benefit as much as ours. So many people in January with high enthusiasm sign up for a year at the local gym and buy an online meal plan without testing it out first. Two weeks into the year, they realize they dislike the food choices and the hours the gym offers, don’t match with their schedule. Feeling frustrated, they stop going to the gym and head to their local grocery store to stock up on cookies and donuts.
4. Don’t Make It Complicated- Save your sanity! When thinking of getting healthy, seek out the experts. Researching the latest fitness gadget or buying a fitness video is not the same as having the hands on benefit of a personal coach in the room who knows you. Although we might do research on the internet if we think we have a problem, we wouldn’t (or shouldn’t) rely on the information there to treat and cure us, we visit our personal physician. The same is true for nutrition, although magazines can list out foods to ‘trim the tummy’, they can’t see you and your individual needs. You need a coach to help you know what choices are right for you.
5. Don’t Quit- Our motto is Make It Happen. We strive to instill this in our training sessions because it affects our mental and physical state. There will be days when life gets in the way and fitting it all in becomes hard. We have to fight through it. As a mom I can describe it like this: you walk into your house exhausted. Its trashed. You have company coming and you only want to go to bed. What do you do? You can grumble and complain, yell and scream, cry and pout; but in the end you pick yourself up and do what it takes to make it happen. The cleaning might not be the best cleaning you’ve ever done and dinner for company might include easy to prepare dishes but in the end you do what it takes. You work through it all. You make it happen.
Yes, there will be days when it is more of a mental game than physically doing what it takes to get food on the table. Guess what? By overcoming the mental the physical gets done. It’s a double win, since the physical gets done the mental side gets a prize, a boost, a high five of sorts.
The flip side is true as well. When the mental side looses and physical side loses too. They bring each other down one more notch. Its like they are scolding each other and they both walk away pouting.
Dig down deep and Make it Happen!
The coaches at The Grateful Plate are trained to help you. Our program is unique. You can not buy it anywhere else. But the biggest difference is that we truly have a passion to change the world. We know that by helping you get healthier, health and wellness will spread to those closest to you. From there it fans out like a beautiful spider web. Together lets make 2017 your year for a better healthier you.
To your best health,