We are on a roll and just getting the hang of meal plans. The amount of time it takes this week will be shorter than the first two weeks. The process gets quicker and easier every week.
With week one and two’s meal plans in front of you, use it as the base for week three. If you loved each meal then just repeat the prior week’s meals. If you found a few meals that just didn’t work for your family than adjust that meal. It might be time to make a new recipe meal night. Adjust one or two meals. Don’t go crazy and change up everything that is working. Lets keep the changes small and consistent. Mix up the side dishes you served with a different meal and move forward. Don’t forget to make your grocery list too. Week three is done. Simple is Easiest, Simple is Best.
Still struggling to make it happen? Don’t give up. Anything new takes a bit longer until we have made the system our own. All this planning saves you time and loads of stress each day.
Start with the basics and keep moving forward.
Five Very Good Reasons for Keeping a Food Journal
Starting a food journal is as easy as an empty sheet of paper and a pen. Use those two tools to write down everything you eat and drink for 3 days. You'll want to add details to your paper as well. Things like how much of each food did you eat, when, were you hungry? How was your food prepared? Did you eat at home? at the table, in the car, or inside a restaurant.
Those questions work for me. But let me know what helps you best.
To your best health,
Eating the food we need and not overindulging is challenging. The more consistent we are with portion control the better we maintain the body we want or the faster we get to the body we want. There are three things I want you to start doing.
1. Use a smaller plate size. Simple but effective way to see a plate full of food and yet the portions are smaller because the plate can only hold so much.
2. Don't go back for seconds. Enjoy the first serving but don't reach for a second spoonful (helping) of foods.
3. Put a reminder on the table to eat slowly. By eating slowly you will your body the chance to naturally signal it is satisfied or 'full'. You can do this in a variety of different ways. Moving the kitchen clock so it is directly across from where you sit will remind you to eat slowly during your meals. Put out different placemats or place a vase of flower on the table. Use that cue of something different on the table to trigger you to act differently. Using a smaller forks and spoons will naturally slow you down as well.
Take one of these ideas or all three and use them to help you.
To Your Best Health,
As we age, we tend to just fall into Old Age. We don't really know what to expect, we just judge what happens as part of aging and accept our new selves and our new life as OLD people.
Here are ten things you can do to ensure you will be miserable while you enjoy OLD age
So Did you get ALL that?
How many of the rules are you following right now?
Be honest with yourself. You see, even just a couple of the steps above are enough to guarantee yourself a less than ideal circumstances to age gracefully. The trouble is most of the rules above work as a vicious circle and one bad habit leads into another.
Change yourself by no longer following one of those rules and break that cycle.
To Your Best Health no matter the age,
This school year is all different for me. I have one going back to 'real' school and two staying with me for another year of homeschooling. If it was the right thing, I'd keep all my kids home with me every day forever. I don't think my married boys would like that, and I also am willing to admit they can gain from being away from the nest.
School schedules can make life a bit more hectic and harried in the morning.
Here are a five things I do for my specific situation that make sure each morning is enjoyable, stress free and ready to go:
1. Prepare the coffee pot. I put fresh coffee grounds in and make sure the water tank is full. I then hit the automatic button and voila in the morning my coffee is ready for me. I even put the mug next to the coffee maker; all I have to do is pour. If you are a tea drinker, you can have your tea bag out and water ready to go. It may sound silly, but sometimes we’re a little foggy in the morning and spend a lot of time trying to remember what we were just about to do.
2. Box up your lunch. Whether it is left overs or a fresh salad, put it in Tupperware the night before so that all you have to do is grab and go. Since I stay home and send one to school, he boxes up his lunch the night before. This mom isn't able to run a forgotten lunch down to the school.
3. No dishes in the sink. This is a house rule. Who wants to start their day by cleaning up a mess? A clean home really is a happy home. This is one I am working on, so please be patient if you see that kitchen clutter at my house.
4. My kids make their own breakfast. I know a lot of you have young kids who need to get up and get ready for school…how can you help them and you have a better morning and not feel rushed? You would be surprised what a minute here and a minute there can do to change the mood of the entire day. If you don’t have kids, then all you have to worry about is YOU and getting yourself ready for the next morning, and you can use the same practices for your own breakfast. If you usually have veggies with your eggs, make sure your veggies are chopped and ready to go for the morning.
5. Make a daily list. What do you WANT your morning routine to look like and what CAN happen the night before to help that run smooth. I live and operate off of lists. I know we have to veer off that path because things come up every now and then, but routines are a good thing and we can’t get into a routine without a plan.
What are you going to do to make sure you have the day you want to have? You are in control, but not without a plan!
To Your Best Health,
Beginning in August and going through the first week of October our family has managed to pack in 6 birthdays. That is almost a birthday every 10 days. I love birthdays and I wouldn't change my family at all. All that celebrating can add on quickly though. (Did you see my daughters made three cakes for 1 birthday?)
I'm going to take it a bit easy this year. I'll totally love on my family and I will hang out and celebrate but I plan to do it with self control too. My birthday is the last one on this merry list and I want to enjoy it.
Here is my plan:
Karalynn's birthday started off this list, next is my oldest son's, Tim. I probably won't be seeing him so if you happen to, give him a hug from his mom and tell him Happy Birthday. I'm sure Coach Dean will tell you when his birthday is but if you write it down now you won't forget September 13th.
To you best Health,
I can't even begin to tell you how pumped up we are to be teaming up with Dan DeFigio, the bestselling author of "Beating Sugar Addiction For Dummies", to help you get off sugar and help you take back control of your eating.
The goal of Sugar Free Me is ambitious. To give you the education, resources and support you need to overcome your addiction to sugar and carbs, and regain control of your life!
Now some of you may think I am going overboard with the word "addiction". After all while we know eating too much sugar isn't great for us, does it really reach that level? Evidence suggests it can, as sugar has been shown to stimulate the same pleasure centers of the brain as some drugs.
I don't think it's any big secret that sugar and sweets are a big "go-to" when we are stressed, or tired, or lonely. The kick of dopamine that sugar gives us can lead to a very destructive cycle, actually altering our neural pathways , and it's also no secret the cycle of sugar addiction can be hard to beat.
Sugar Free Me is a 28-day step-by-step education, accountability, and strategy course that helps you understand the root causes of sugar addiction, how to address them to create your plan of action, and help you kick the cycle of eating excess sugar.
What we are going to learn:
We are also going to fill up your "Sugar Free Me Toolbox" with tools that are going to help you Avoid Temptation, Find and Avoid Your Food Triggers, and explore What You REALLY Want when you reach for the sweets. (Hint: It's not sugar)
The most valuable thing you are going to get over the course of this course (see what I did there) is daily accountability and incredible support from both those taking this journey with you and our incredible team of coaches.
You will have your own account created in a really cool program called "Coach Catalyst". Every day you will get an email or message to your phone that delivers your daily "Sugar Free Me" lesson and asks the question: "Did you avoid eating all added sugars yesterday?"
Don't underestimate the power of answering that daily question honestly. This simple action does a couple of very important things. It creates a record for you to look back on and evaluate under what conditions and in what circumstances you tend to reach for the sweets. But it also helps your coach know when you need a little extra help to get moving in the right direction.
You also get access to our Private Facebook page, where you can hang out with folks on the same journey and where your coaches can offer more support. We have found these groups are a powerful way to stay connected and see that you are not the only one struggling. Take advantage of this page!
So by now you are probably asking "How Much For All This?"
All we are asking is that you are "All In" and willing to open your mind (and mouth) to new ideas, foods, tastes and possibilities.
That's Right. As a gift to you, we are offering this full 28-Day program as our "Fall Freebie" this year. You're welcome! 🙂
The "Sugar Free Me" Challenge Officially Starts Monday, September 17, but don't be "that guy", and sign up today! As a bonus, you will get immediate early access into the Facebook Support group.
For someone who loves sweets (like I do), you may be wondering what you might be getting yourself into.
As with anything we do that is "new", it's going to take a little time to adjust to your "new normal". Here's a thought to consider.
Did you know that one of the keys to success and happiness in life is to practice self-compassion?
We are SO hard on ourselves when we don't live up to our expectations for ourselves, and that usually leads to a downward spiral of guilt and feelings of failure. I have lived it, and it usually meant reaching for more food. That's how I got to 280 pounds.
But I learned really fast that to take it off I needed more than education (I knew eating junk food wasn't good for me), or more willpower (when I am tired or feeling blue I have none). I needed a strategy for dealing with the inevitable stuff that comes up to derail me perfect plans - I think it's called life!
And that is what Sugar Free Me is all about. Sure there is an education component involved, but more importantly we are going to give you real world strategies to set yourself up to succeed, including what to do if (when) you aren't perfect and fall off the wagon.
No program is magic. Change takes effort and self-reflection. It takes a willingness to step out of your comfort zone and embrace something new.
And I believe in you. You can do this. We are here to help!
Make It Happen!
If we maintain the status quo, we really aren’t growing, are we?
But growing and changing doesn’t have to be (and probably shouldn’t be!) a super-serious and boring business.
It should be fun!
How can I make healthy eating more fun?
What else can I do to keep things lively, interesting, fun?
To your best health,
Check THIS list out!
Those are just a FEW of the names for the oh so sweet, but not so good for you (at least to the excess most of us eat it) substance known as...
Once again we are teaming up with Dan Defigio, bestselling author of "Beating Sugar Addiction for Dummies" to bring you a our 28-Day program called "Sugar Free Me".
More details will be coming soon, but we are going to posting a registration link soon, and the program will start on Monday September 17th.
Oh and one more thing!
It's our gift to you. This program is our "Fall Freebie", and seeing it's worth about a bajillion dollars in real life :), that a pretty sweet (see what I did there) deal.
Well for a lot of you reading this, they probably aren’t existent. You don’t have any (and if they aren’t written down, posted and reviewed regularly, stop kidding yourself – you don’t have any).
There are really two types of goals: Outcome based goals and Behavior goals.
1) Outcome Based Goals are the objective or objectives that you hope to accomplish. “I want to lose 10 pounds in 10 weeks” is an outcome based goal, as is “I want to earn $100,000 a year by the age of 30”. You can’t directly control the outcome, rather the outcome will be the result of things you have to do.
2) Behavior Goals represent the steps that need to be taken to accomplish your desired outcome. This is where the rubber hits the road. When you want to lose 10 pounds in 10 weeks, your behavior goals will likely include “I will reduce my total calorie intake by 500 calories a day for the next 10 weeks”, and/or “I will not miss training at for the next 4 weeks.”
See the difference?
You directly control the behavior goal.
You choose to take action on it…
or you don’t.
Behavior goals for a 10-week fat loss program might include some of the following (which are familiar to many of you):
“I commit to eating breakfast every day for the next 10 weeks”.
“I commit to taking 3 grams of fish oil and a multivitamin every day for the next 10 weeks”.
“I commit to planning my “free meals” and eating junk food only during these 1-2 meals a week”.
“I commit to exercising 4 hours a week, with at least 2 being with my peeps at Cr8 Fitness”.
Building Behavior Goals does not have to be complicated. These are regular daily and weekly action steps that will positively and immediately impact your Outcome Goals.
Following is a real world example from a client that we received just yesterday. It is an outstanding example of behavior goals that are sure to contribute to her desired outcome (fat loss). She has already shared how establishing these goals with a end point (she set them for the month of August) has helped her overcome the feeling that she was somehow depriving herself. She just has to keep them for a month, not the rest of her life. So turning down the blueberry waffles wasn’t that hard, because it’s only for a month. Great lesson there as well!
Here are her behavior goals for the month of August.
1. I will keep my list of guidelines in a spot where I can easily
see them, and I will read them every day.
2. I will exercise 4 times every week.
3. I will write down specifically what I am eating.
4. For the rest of August, I will . . .
a. eat protein and vegetables at every meal.
b. drink a minimum of 80oz. of water each day.
c. eat no more than one whole grain bread serving each
day (and no later than lunch time).
5. For the rest of August, I will not . . .
a. eat any dessert items except for one special
occasion that I have already planned.
b. eat any pasta, rice, white potatoes, or white bread.
c. eat any more than one serving of cheese and one
serving of nuts or nut butter each day.
Now there is a lot on this list, yours doesn’t necessarily have to be this long. In fact here is what I want you to do. Establish one outcome goal for the next 8 weeks. It could be “lose 8 pounds in 8 weeks” or “drop 2 inches off my waist in the next 8 weeks”. Note there is a specific time period involved, don’t skip that part!
Now that you know your desired outcome, establish 3 behavior goals that support that outcome. You have some great examples above, and I can help you if you are stuck.
Once you have your outcome and behavior goal(s), post them to the comments below. Hold yourself accountable to meeting both categories of your goals. I look forward to seeing what you come up with, as well as coaching you to get there. Coach Dean is right "Goals start with Go"!
To Your Best Health,